Your home life is important to you now. Focus on it and gain a better understanding of your lover.
Be careful of looking to your work for fulfilment. This will create pressure you don’t need.
It’s OK to indulge. That’s what weekends are for, right?
You are capable of going anywhere you want.
Have the judgment to know when to walk away.
Hiding your true feelings will create a wall around you. Honesty is what gains respect and trust.